What Drives Me Crazy: Over Thinking
January 9, 2013 in Bloggers
You know what drives me crazy? Over thinking, over analyzing, putting too much into something that should be simple. I am guilty of this almost daily. I think too much about what I say, don’t say, should say, write, don’t write, should write.
I have been sitting on a new pitch email…in my head…for weeks.. I still haven’t even typed it up. Why? Because I am over thinking. Is this really what I want to say? Is it too professional? Would this be too laid back? …too long, too short, appropriate, asking too much, under selling myself, or just plain laughable!
I have taken in everything I have learned from other bloggers over the past year, and most of what I have learned about pitches and dealing with companies is a little out of my comfort zone. I don’t write emails that are “perky” or “fun”… I worked outside of the home in a professional office. I drafted legal documents… I can’t do “fun” and “perky”, because to me it is just plain unprofessional.
So, I have come to the conclusion that I am going to take everything that I learned this past year, about correspondence, and toss it back out of the window. I am me! My idea of volunteering as a child was in the Human Resources Department of the VA or helping file papers and write transmittal letters for the local attorney’s office. If someone doesn’t respect my respect for business matters… we don’t need to be doing business!
That said… I am now off to draft a new pitch, wish me luck!






Oooh, good luck! Truth is, I think we all over think things sometimes. That is why I love having such a wonderful Blogging community where you can bounce an idea off another Blogger to get thoughts or advice.
I’m the same way! I worked for a medical practice and deal with HIPAA, OSHA and all these other regulations to keep healthcare affordable (sorry, my bit of sarcasm for the day) and don’t do quirky well when communicating with professionals. BE YOU! You want people to connect with the real you, not the version others think you should be.
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Having worked in online marketing and for various online clients for years -I would say always be professional. The cute and unique emails are great if you are selling yourself, but when you are doing reviews – companies want to sell and see that you can what they need. It’s the difference between being a link and being a blogger they may later come back to for more review or paying work.
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Wow..you took so many words right out of my mouth!!! I’m not a ‘cute and funny’ pitch sort of person. I give them the information they need to make an informed decision (counts/numbers, sites/pages & what I can do for them, where I’ll post/publish what.)
Granted, my emails are usually very short and sweet, and maybe I need to work on that… Thanks for a great post that I can relate to!
Marianne
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I always worry about my emails being too direct and to the point/short. But then I watched this and further discussions in a seminar he participated in and I thought maybe short IS the best route. Have you seen this:
http://youtu.be/RgaHq0VELQk
Very interesting article. I agree, being “you” is the best you can do.
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I am guilty of the same thing. I over-think just about everything, to the point that it keeps me up at night! I agree with both Susan and Sarah, be you, but be professional you. Good luck!
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I think you came to the perfect conclusion. In the midst of all of the blogging “how-tos”, communities, and forums that have popped up full of bloggers sharing insight and opinions with each other on how to propel their spaces further, it’s very easy to get away from what a blog should be at its core. It’s about you. Who you are, what you think, how you live your life, what you believe in. A blogger should be themselves, first and foremost, and in everything that they do, from writing blog posts to working with companies. If you’re quirky and laid back, then do that, but I have always been a professionally-minded person, and while I have my moments when I like to be silly and write blog posts that are funny and relaxed, I don’t think my business correspondence with other businesses is the place for that. Good for you for knowing who you are and sticking to it–and not letting how other people run their spaces interfere with how you want to run yours.
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I think you will find many reps very excited to work with you. It seems to me the more professional you are the more they want to work with you. And it’s always important to be true to yourself. Good luck!
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Me, too! I am so guilty of over-thinking on a DAILY basis :/ Why, oh why am I wired this way?!?

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Guilty of over thinking. I love that I do have a group of bloggers I can bounce ideas off. Really great article.